The BIGGEST relationship fulfilment obstacle that you will face is right in front of you - Every Day !

After 10 or 15 years together, you will know your partner pretty well and may even love that person deeply - BUT - there's also a lingering, routine familiarity that casts a shadow of unappealing predictability over your relationship, that you have learned to reluctantly accept because you are taught that this picture represents what 'happy people' in 'proper relationships' look like.

Well... that is just a total bollocks and nobody wants to die, having lived a life filled to the brim with bollocks.

The more likely reality, is that when you unwittingly inherited rudimentary and counterproductive belief and value systems from your family & your community - that has now become your 'way of life' foundation (Human Operating System) - you acquired the 'nonsense' along with the good stuff.  You did that, because that's exactly what happens when you haven't yet developed the capacity for objective assessment. The good news however, is that there are far more rewarding ways to LIVE and to LOVE and to BE than what you were exposed to as a child.

But most of us will probably never know them, because what most conventional folks learn through childhood nurture is so antiquated, insular, confining and unintentionally disrespectful, that it prevents us from naturally embracing other, more sophisticated way of life possibilities; and the primary reason for this condition, is that conventional 'way of being' frameworks have their origins in ages-old institutional thinking, that is steeped to the gills with ignorance, fear, taboo and hypocrisy. So not only is it irrational and unreasonable as 'way of life' doctrine,  it is plainly deficient in Emotional Intelligence (EQ) which makes it counterproductive if you're lucky, and destructive if you're not.

The big picture manifestation of this condition is right there in front of us: Third World living conditions, flagrant human rights and animal rights violations along with indescribable atrocities that most of us couldn't begin to understand (despite our protest to the contrary because we remain enumerated via our purely objective and up-to-the-minute mobile news-feeds) and constant war for profit and power - as though somehow - that is what life is meant to be; I digress...

Unfortunately, by the time the privileged world is conscious, these antiquated way of life frameworks are so deeply ingrained in our psyche that they become improperly entangled with our identity - and we in turn, become captive to nonsense behavioural constraints without even realising it. So we form erroneous and misinformed opinions and preferences about what is Right, what is Real and what is True; and THAT is one of the key reasons that we powerfully resist information that conflicts with or contradicts our views and preferences - and THAT is why this condition is so difficult to detect and overcome.

So - in the case of relationships (which is what this is really all about) if, as is typically the case for most conventional people, the novelty of your relationship has worn thin - for reasons that you cannot properly understand, and you find yourself disenchanted, conflicted and wondering 'What now?' and 'Is this all there is?' and then ignoring away your painful desperation despite the continuing internal struggle to reconcile conflicting 'way of being' principles - consider that this one little book that you haven't yet read, may very well contain the map to 'way of life' possibilities that you never knew existed. Way of life possibilities that change your life - Forever & Always... 

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