The Biggest Hurdle

You might think that the biggest hurdle most people will confront in the context of their personal and life-partner relationships, is accepting that they are unfulfilled in some fundamental and confronting way; and you would, of course, be - Dead Wrong!

People know they are unfulfilled. What they don’t know is ‘why’.

By far, the biggest hurdle for those of you suffering personal and relationship discontent is, in fact, the understanding that you are - entirely responsible - for both creating it and for addressing it.

In any moment, you entirely own 'whatever and 'wherever' you are in your life, which I suspect is likely to be inside the confines of your agreed-to value and belief systems, your learned and nurtured insecurities and your powerful, undistinguished egocentricities (where we seem to spend way more time than we should).

Consider the possibility that it is entirely YOU, holding YOU captive to your personal insidious ‘Way of Life’ catastrophe, not realizing that you are doing so, and being convinced that it isn’t true.

Consider that, without a little nudge in your awareness, you may be compelling yourself to endure a lifetime of unnecessary disenchantment.

Then one day, you will die; at which point, I suspect you will be quite dead and unable to debate the issue.

So debate it - Now!

Next Week – a glimpse of what a ‘way of life’ catastrophe looks like.

PS – Today I have been your enemy. Next week, I will still be your enemy because frankly, it’s more fun this way for both of us.